There's a secret I have, and I'm bursting at the seems to share it. **come closer** **a little closer** Promise you won't tell anyone?... Pinky swear?... ~smiles~
*whispers* I'm a TWITTERHOLIC!!! *giggles*
Ahh.. that is so much better. It feels so good to share that. LOL
What is it that has gotten the world in a craze about the infamous Twitter? I mean really, we are attached to our phones & computer's and can't put them down, or walk aways from them.
Well, I'm not about to sit here and psychoanalyze every single person that uses the application. But what I can do is express to you why I have been an avid user for almost 1yr 1/2 now.
When I originally started to use Twitter, I gotta tell ya, I couldn't figure out how to even use it. LOL. I think I had 20 followers and couldn't even talk to a single soul. Anyone who did chat to me, wanted me to cyber sex or show me a picture of their penis.. (hmmm...that hasn't changed..lol) As I got use to the application, and with help from a then, friend. I started to enter into a world that really is like no other.
Aside from all the HOT looking photos, and steamy profile pics.. I soon realized there were some amazing people who like myself were utilizing this application for so many reasons.
I myself had originally utilized this tool for networking... but I can say now, honestly, that I have some remarkable friends across the world on Twitter.
I look forward to seeing how everyone is, an what they are up to, and I have been fortunate to have been trusted by many with the details of their lives. A true honour.
A simple application that was originally meant for me as a netwoking tool, has now become more than jus that. I mean, if you take the time to really look at it, and see the rewarding benefits that is has for so many people... I don't understand why more people don't use it?
Need it be for the escape from one's stressors in everyday life, comfort of knowing you can be who you want to be with no pretences, sexual expression, networking, socialization, finding love, fiding lust, finding friendships, or knowing that you are not alone in this huge world we live in.. TWITTER is a tool that if used with caution.. ;) can add some smiles to anyones day.
YES, there can be darkness that looms... but let's face it, you gotta be smart with anything that you do. Moderation, safety, and keeping it real are important when using twitter...
SOOOO don't go out.. and do something stupid, and blame it on me.. *LOL*
TO ALL MY TWITTER FAMILY.. you guys brighten up my day & thank you for the MANY smiles you have added to my life.
Now stop sending your naked pictures to me... Alright?!! ** giggles**
HUGS & KISSES always..
your FOXY fox..
~Deme~
~^..^~ xox
Monday, September 13, 2010
Wednesday, March 31, 2010
DR. FOXY ~^..^~
I always seem to get stumped when it comes to writing for my blog. I wonder why that is? I mean I normally can speak a mile a minute..trust me when I tell you this..LOL . For some reason when it's time to write some of my inner most feelings and thoughts down, I just feel exposed. Is that crazy? Me, a woman that can bare her assets.. *giggles* feeling exposed! GO FIGURE?!!
I'm sure like some of you, I wonder?
What is it that I want to tell you all? What is it, that is so important about my life that will be so informative that will create change? *smiles* Well.. the one thing I have come to realize is that it doesn't matter. I mean, the only way I can help to create change is if I start by sharing.
I think the one thing being an escort that I have been fortunate to have been exposed to, is the beauty of finding out what men are like. Trust me, it wasn't always this way for me. I went through a stage of hating men.. ( yup.. the blame game) but I have far gotten past that stage. I mean, Reality check: I was the one they were coming to..so how could I really hate them? Makes no sense right? ..lol
I know alot of you are scartching your heads right now.. but there are many ways to look at situations. Lets take for example a married man.. (alot of you ask me this question all the time)
He's coming to see me. Yes.
Why is he coming to see me? Problems with the marriage. Is it because of me? NO
Problems with the wife? YES.
I am NOT the solution.. I agree. But a screaming, yelling wife isn't either. Nor is a screaming, yelling husband.
Problem: communication - obviously!!!
Being a woman, I totally understand what it is like to raise children and feel like the one who has to do it all, all the time. I also understand what it's like to be a father on the road all the time being in Hotels, craving Home- and when you get there..it's WW4. Men don't turn off sex.. women can (neither do I .. that's just plain silly- self denied pleasure..HELL NO.. Ill be angry after an orgasm..LOL) SO it's all about COMMUNICATION.
Also.. own your crap.
I find people are in a state of such denial with owning their own issues that they LOVE to shift the blame on others. (blame game) Yes in a marriage there are many contributing factors. When you really get to the root of the issue, it's really all about what you are expecting another person to do, that you should be fulfilling for yourself.
**ducks head** Please don't throw anything at me... LOL
NOW... here's the other side for the women.. cuz gents...y'all aren't the innocent.
How about coming home and instead of saying "baby suck my dick" .. do something a little more thoughtful. I mean hell..she's not just sitting on her ass you know.
She misses you just as much, and wants to catch you up on what has been going on with your family. You know..the one you are busy working for.
Being an escort I guess I get to do it all. ( NO PUN..lol)
I'm fortunate to be able to sit with some married men, whom are stressed and sometimes I get to shed some light in their marriage.. (yes I speak for the woman..as crazy as that sounds)
If I could offer advise: COMMUNICATION & be HONEST about your feelings.
Yup.. Dr. Foxy.. who would have thunk? *giggles*
Oodles of Hugs,
D. Fox ~^..^~
I'm sure like some of you, I wonder?
What is it that I want to tell you all? What is it, that is so important about my life that will be so informative that will create change? *smiles* Well.. the one thing I have come to realize is that it doesn't matter. I mean, the only way I can help to create change is if I start by sharing.
I think the one thing being an escort that I have been fortunate to have been exposed to, is the beauty of finding out what men are like. Trust me, it wasn't always this way for me. I went through a stage of hating men.. ( yup.. the blame game) but I have far gotten past that stage. I mean, Reality check: I was the one they were coming to..so how could I really hate them? Makes no sense right? ..lol
I know alot of you are scartching your heads right now.. but there are many ways to look at situations. Lets take for example a married man.. (alot of you ask me this question all the time)
He's coming to see me. Yes.
Why is he coming to see me? Problems with the marriage. Is it because of me? NO
Problems with the wife? YES.
I am NOT the solution.. I agree. But a screaming, yelling wife isn't either. Nor is a screaming, yelling husband.
Problem: communication - obviously!!!
Being a woman, I totally understand what it is like to raise children and feel like the one who has to do it all, all the time. I also understand what it's like to be a father on the road all the time being in Hotels, craving Home- and when you get there..it's WW4. Men don't turn off sex.. women can (neither do I .. that's just plain silly- self denied pleasure..HELL NO.. Ill be angry after an orgasm..LOL) SO it's all about COMMUNICATION.
Also.. own your crap.
I find people are in a state of such denial with owning their own issues that they LOVE to shift the blame on others. (blame game) Yes in a marriage there are many contributing factors. When you really get to the root of the issue, it's really all about what you are expecting another person to do, that you should be fulfilling for yourself.
**ducks head** Please don't throw anything at me... LOL
NOW... here's the other side for the women.. cuz gents...y'all aren't the innocent.
How about coming home and instead of saying "baby suck my dick" .. do something a little more thoughtful. I mean hell..she's not just sitting on her ass you know.
She misses you just as much, and wants to catch you up on what has been going on with your family. You know..the one you are busy working for.
Being an escort I guess I get to do it all. ( NO PUN..lol)
I'm fortunate to be able to sit with some married men, whom are stressed and sometimes I get to shed some light in their marriage.. (yes I speak for the woman..as crazy as that sounds)
If I could offer advise: COMMUNICATION & be HONEST about your feelings.
Yup.. Dr. Foxy.. who would have thunk? *giggles*
Oodles of Hugs,
D. Fox ~^..^~
Sunday, February 21, 2010
Misconstrued...
I'M BAACCKKKK!!! Did you all miss me?? *smiles*
Well I've decided to start writing..and it was from a comment left on my page that made me decide what my first entry will be about.
I had originally started writing about why I had come into this business..experiences..etc. but I had to take down everything..since well..I had a situation take place. :(
So to start fresh..
Is my life as an escort really the same of how it's reflected in the movie's/ media or by what people believe it to be.
Here's a juicy topic for you.
I believe there are many facets to this business...I believe this industry is not properly portrayed. I believe it to be a very one sided view. Obviously media/movies etc. are trying to do what they do best..make money, and i guess they are accomplishing their task. I find it sad, since they are feeding the minds of our future generations with false information.
I mean....
NOT every single woman in this industry is a victim of it. There is not something wrong with all of us, or the need to be saved from someone or ourselves' because we have chosen this path for ourselves. There are several women whom are reputable and take their business seriously. We are comfortable with what we do, and enjoy spending time with our clients'. What is so wrong with that?
It's seen as if we only are portrayed with spending our time with the "deviants "of the world...the "perverts" whom need sex..because that is all the business is about right?
Well I'm here to tell you IT'S NOT! .
How about the widower's whom have children that they are raising and don't want to complicate their situation... and crave that humanly touch, companionship, But are grieving still?
How about victim's of tragedies...learning to overcome their self image..and unfortunately the image driven society we live in, lets them fall under the "sexy" radar?
The socially introverted people...who don't know how to "pick up" another person.. because they never learned the socialization skills to do so.?
The lonely/depressed person, whom at least picks up the phone and calls us for companionship, other than taking their lives that night?
The handicapped person bedridden, and sometimes within months of dying and their family's are booking us.. so we can bring happiness to their loved ones lives as well?
The business professional that doesn't have time for a serious commitment but wants the companionship and intimacy that the encounter brings?
Our business is not just about sex. It's a deeper intimacy.. one that no one expresses in their movie clips... although "Pretty woman" touched on it a little. (maybe that's why the movie did so well)
Our clients come to see us for many reason's...and for whatever sunshine we bring into their lives we are their fantasy, their escape..whatever that means to them for that moment.
Yes, we see client's whom are married. I am not here to pass judgement on them.
They have their right to choose.. and their marital problems are theirs.
I also see couples.. yet no one talks about that!! We bring a togetherness to an already formed union.. maybe a rekindling? But most of you only think of us as home wrecker's right?
I am also a teacher, to the new adventurer.. ladies and men. Helping them in area's that they wouldn't normally be able to ask someone... but because of the situation..they can. But we are only dirty hoe's right?
What I have always found amusing is that the same newspaper's that do article's about this industry in a negative context, are the same one's that have 3-4 pages in their paper's with Escorts advertising in them. Talk about a contradiction... and rhetorical!!
I still find it amusing to see people's reactions to me.
Take for example on Twitter...
I always get different people talking to me or DM'ing me.
One of the famous one's i get.. "I want to shove my cock in your pu**y?"
If I was a doctor, author, lawyer..(whatever) .is that the first thing you'd say to me? But because I'm posted as a companion..it's OK to talk to me like that..right?
Why does a person believe.. that because I'm an escort, I deserve to be treated as an object of sex.. as opposed to a person?
Why is that treatment OK.. because of what I do?
I do believe it's because of what the media has done to us.. we've been socialized to believe that Escorts/Hookers/Prostitute's/Hoe's.. whatever your choice of word.. (I prefer companion or Escort) is a negative thing. Taboo if you may.
I believe that if people are in such an influential position to share information..then they should properly inform the younger generations with correct information.
I don't encourage or discourage my chosen career... I am pro choice.. because we were given the god given right to choose what works for us.
By the way.. there is pros and cons to every job.. and I'm the first one to talk candidly about it.. escorting has many downfall's to it as well..it's not all pretty... but... It's tiresome to hear us as being portrayed needy and problematic people. I'm no different then any of you.
Anyhow.. more to come soon..
Oodles of Hugs..
Deme xox ~^.*.^~
Well I've decided to start writing..and it was from a comment left on my page that made me decide what my first entry will be about.
I had originally started writing about why I had come into this business..experiences..etc. but I had to take down everything..since well..I had a situation take place. :(
So to start fresh..
Is my life as an escort really the same of how it's reflected in the movie's/ media or by what people believe it to be.
Here's a juicy topic for you.
I believe there are many facets to this business...I believe this industry is not properly portrayed. I believe it to be a very one sided view. Obviously media/movies etc. are trying to do what they do best..make money, and i guess they are accomplishing their task. I find it sad, since they are feeding the minds of our future generations with false information.
I mean....
NOT every single woman in this industry is a victim of it. There is not something wrong with all of us, or the need to be saved from someone or ourselves' because we have chosen this path for ourselves. There are several women whom are reputable and take their business seriously. We are comfortable with what we do, and enjoy spending time with our clients'. What is so wrong with that?
It's seen as if we only are portrayed with spending our time with the "deviants "of the world...the "perverts" whom need sex..because that is all the business is about right?
Well I'm here to tell you IT'S NOT! .
How about the widower's whom have children that they are raising and don't want to complicate their situation... and crave that humanly touch, companionship, But are grieving still?
How about victim's of tragedies...learning to overcome their self image..and unfortunately the image driven society we live in, lets them fall under the "sexy" radar?
The socially introverted people...who don't know how to "pick up" another person.. because they never learned the socialization skills to do so.?
The lonely/depressed person, whom at least picks up the phone and calls us for companionship, other than taking their lives that night?
The handicapped person bedridden, and sometimes within months of dying and their family's are booking us.. so we can bring happiness to their loved ones lives as well?
The business professional that doesn't have time for a serious commitment but wants the companionship and intimacy that the encounter brings?
Our business is not just about sex. It's a deeper intimacy.. one that no one expresses in their movie clips... although "Pretty woman" touched on it a little. (maybe that's why the movie did so well)
Our clients come to see us for many reason's...and for whatever sunshine we bring into their lives we are their fantasy, their escape..whatever that means to them for that moment.
Yes, we see client's whom are married. I am not here to pass judgement on them.
They have their right to choose.. and their marital problems are theirs.
I also see couples.. yet no one talks about that!! We bring a togetherness to an already formed union.. maybe a rekindling? But most of you only think of us as home wrecker's right?
I am also a teacher, to the new adventurer.. ladies and men. Helping them in area's that they wouldn't normally be able to ask someone... but because of the situation..they can. But we are only dirty hoe's right?
What I have always found amusing is that the same newspaper's that do article's about this industry in a negative context, are the same one's that have 3-4 pages in their paper's with Escorts advertising in them. Talk about a contradiction... and rhetorical!!
I still find it amusing to see people's reactions to me.
Take for example on Twitter...
I always get different people talking to me or DM'ing me.
One of the famous one's i get.. "I want to shove my cock in your pu**y?"
If I was a doctor, author, lawyer..(whatever) .is that the first thing you'd say to me? But because I'm posted as a companion..it's OK to talk to me like that..right?
Why does a person believe.. that because I'm an escort, I deserve to be treated as an object of sex.. as opposed to a person?
Why is that treatment OK.. because of what I do?
I do believe it's because of what the media has done to us.. we've been socialized to believe that Escorts/Hookers/Prostitute's/Hoe's.. whatever your choice of word.. (I prefer companion or Escort) is a negative thing. Taboo if you may.
I believe that if people are in such an influential position to share information..then they should properly inform the younger generations with correct information.
I don't encourage or discourage my chosen career... I am pro choice.. because we were given the god given right to choose what works for us.
By the way.. there is pros and cons to every job.. and I'm the first one to talk candidly about it.. escorting has many downfall's to it as well..it's not all pretty... but... It's tiresome to hear us as being portrayed needy and problematic people. I'm no different then any of you.
Anyhow.. more to come soon..
Oodles of Hugs..
Deme xox ~^.*.^~
Monday, February 15, 2010
Road block..
** peeks inside** ~^.*.^~
It's so dark and lonely in here.. Not at all a reflection of the person I am. Time to add some letters to this page.
What do I write about?? Hmmm.. that's always a road block for me. I mean I have a zillion and one stories to share..but what do I share?
Well maybe Ill just sleep on it. I'll add something soon!!!
Oodles of Hugs..
~D.Fox~
(any suggestions??)
It's so dark and lonely in here.. Not at all a reflection of the person I am. Time to add some letters to this page.
What do I write about?? Hmmm.. that's always a road block for me. I mean I have a zillion and one stories to share..but what do I share?
Well maybe Ill just sleep on it. I'll add something soon!!!
Oodles of Hugs..
~D.Fox~
(any suggestions??)
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