DR. FOXY ~^..^~

I always seem to get stumped when it comes to writing for my blog. I wonder why that is? I mean I normally can speak a mile a minute..trust me when I tell you this..LOL . For some reason when it's time to write some of my inner most feelings and thoughts down, I just feel exposed. Is that crazy? Me, a woman that can bare her assets.. *giggles* feeling exposed! GO FIGURE?!!


I'm sure like some of you, I wonder?
What is it that I want to tell you all? What is it, that is so important about my life that will be so informative that will create change? *smiles* Well.. the one thing I have come to realize is that it doesn't matter. I mean, the only way I can help to create change is if I start by sharing.


I think the one thing being an escort that I have been fortunate to have been exposed to, is the beauty of finding out what men are like. Trust me, it wasn't always this way for me. I went through a stage of hating men.. ( yup.. the blame game) but I have far gotten past that stage. I mean, Reality check: I was the one they were coming to..so how could I really hate them? Makes no sense right? ..lol

I know alot of you are scartching your heads right now.. but there are many ways to look at situations. Lets take for example a married man.. (alot of you ask me this question all the time)
He's coming to see me. Yes.
Why is he coming to see me? Problems with the marriage. Is it because of me? NO
Problems with the wife? YES.
I am NOT the solution.. I agree. But a screaming, yelling wife isn't either. Nor is a screaming, yelling husband.
Problem: communication - obviously!!!

Being a woman, I totally understand what it is like to raise children and feel like the one who has to do it all, all the time. I also understand what it's like to be a father on the road all the time being in Hotels, craving Home- and when you get there..it's WW4. Men don't turn off sex.. women can (neither do I .. that's just plain silly- self denied pleasure..HELL NO.. Ill be angry after an orgasm..LOL) SO it's all about COMMUNICATION.
Also.. own your crap.

I find people are in a state of such denial with owning their own issues that they LOVE to shift the blame on others. (blame game) Yes in a marriage there are many contributing factors. When you really get to the root of the issue, it's really all about what you are expecting another person to do, that you should be fulfilling for yourself.

**ducks head** Please don't throw anything at me... LOL

NOW... here's the other side for the women.. cuz gents...y'all aren't the innocent.

How about coming home and instead of saying "baby suck my dick" .. do something a little more thoughtful. I mean hell..she's not just sitting on her ass you know.
She misses you just as much, and wants to catch you up on what has been going on with your family. You know..the one you are busy working for.

Being an escort I guess I get to do it all. ( NO PUN..lol)

I'm fortunate to be able to sit with some married men, whom are stressed and sometimes I get to shed some light in their marriage.. (yes I speak for the woman..as crazy as that sounds)

If I could offer advise: COMMUNICATION & be HONEST about your feelings.

Yup.. Dr. Foxy.. who would have thunk? *giggles*



Oodles of Hugs,
D. Fox ~^..^~